6 Things A Bride Should Never Do The Month Before Saying I Do

We get it. Weddings can be crazy. Whether it’s getting the logistics into place or getting your bridal prep in place, everything seems to be happening at once. ...

We get it. Weddings can be crazy. Whether it’s getting the logistics into place or getting your bridal prep in place, everything seems to be happening at once. And, while you might have a to-do list on your wall, it’s not difficult to lose track of all the things you need to make sure NOT to do, before you tie the knot.

1.Do NOT go on that crash diet

We cannot stress enough on this. In fact, this should be in the holy book of all brides-to-be. The month before your wedding is not the time to remember that you still need to shed those extra kilos. If you insist on starving yourself, chances are you’ll end up being a very hungry and irritable bride on your wedding day.

Instead, why not remember that, while you might want every detail to be perfect on your wedding (including yourself), your big day is about celebrating your love, and there’s nothing more important than that?

If you’re serious about shedding the pounds, then we recommend you consult a professional nutritionist at least 3-6 months before the event. Not only will you be slimmer, you’ll also be a lot healthier and happier.

2.Don’t skip your sleep

Sure, this is the busiest time of the whole process. In fact, it’s probably the busiest you’ve ever been in your entire life. With tons of preparations pending, old friends to meet, and family to greet, there’s never enough time to catch up on your beauty sleep. But, unless you want your dark circles to be the highlight of your wedding photographs, you’ll have to draw a hard line somewhere.

Set a routine which allows you to get 6-8 hours of sleep each day, and you’ll be much better equipped to handle the stress and drama of the wedding.

3.But don’t forget your loved ones either

You’re the star of the show, and everyone knows it. But that doesn’t give you leave to neglect your friends and family who’ve taken time out just to be a part of your special day. So, whether it means greeting that bua-ji you can’t stand with a pleasant smile, staying calm when things aren’t going your way, or accommodating strange demands from out-station relatives, do remember to be a considerate host, and a gracious bride.

4.No drastic haircuts, please (unless you can handle it)

Yes, your wedding is your chance to shine. But if you’ve got a major makeover in mind that means a radical color or style change, then we recommend you wait until after- especially if you’re the kind of person who needs everything to be just so. If you must get a makeover, try to make sure you get it in advance and let your hairstylist know how you want it to look when it grows out.

This way, in the month before your wedding, a basic trim is all you’ll need. And, when it comes to making sure your tresses are well-groomed, a hot oil massage and a hair spa is the best way to let your hair relax and shine!

5.Neglecting your skin is a definite no-no

This one sounds pretty obvious. But when it comes to downtime, with all the hassle, stress, and drama of the wedding, quite a few brides-to-be aren’t sure how to be at the top of the game when it comes to their skin.

Sure, we all cave in to the temptation of those delicious oily snacks, or have one glass of wine too many. But just for this month do remember to be hyper vigilant when it comes to your diet and beauty routine. Whether it’s eating healthy and staying hydrated, or making sure you’re cleansing, toning, and moisturizing, or just taking off your makeup before bed, these little things will make a huge difference to that bridal glow.

In fact, you should also ensure that you’ve already finalized your wedding makeup with your bridal makeup artist so that you know which products she’ll be using (and avoiding!). Get it out of the way as soon as possible, and use minimal makeup in this period. Trust us, your skin (and your photographs) will be much better off!

And finally…

6.Don’t forget to chill!

The invitations haven’t gone out, one of your best friends has an important meeting on that day, and you don’t know how that hole appeared in your lehenga for the reception.

You have two choices. Freak out, have a panic attack, and try to run around town setting everything right but not getting much done. Or you can stay calm, tell your friend you understand and you hope they’ll be able to make it to the other functions, and call your tailor/ stylist immediately. Which do you think will be more productive?

The most important thing to remember- there’s nothing more important than the fact that you’re finally going to be together with the man (or woman) of your dreams! Your wedding, at the end of the day, is an occasion to celebrate the rest of your life together. Whether things go wrong or not, when you’re relaxed, happy, and having fun, nothing else will matter when you look back.

So why not just chill out and enjoy the beginning of the best of the rest of your life?